Wow. A lot of judgement here. I guess you didn't see the humour in my writing. :) I'm sorry some people have taken it so badly.

I am glad I married him and I'd do it again. The fact that he's slowed down and it's frustrating is a quirk of life, not a reason to settle for someone who's less well suited to me because he's 'age appropriate'. This guy is my perfect man, and I'll be with him until my dying day (or his) - and I had more money than him when we married.