The first question on the RAAD-R questionnaire is: 'Are you a sympathetic person?' I think it depends on the circumstances. I can be sympathetic if people are deserving, and I can be sympathetic if people have had a hard time, but I'm not always sympathetic if people have just been idiots and the inevitable has happened. Especially if I've warned them. I mean, I might be a bit sympathetic, but people would probably not think I was sympathetic, because I'm more likely to feel frustrated by them than sympathetic. It may also depend on your definition of sympathetic. As you can see, these questions are a struggle for me!