Oh my gosh. I am so sorry to read this. It's awful. The only thing I would say is that a national health service is not all it's cracked up to be either, because in the UK, we too, have doctors who don't give a shit and won't allow us access to treatment. We just don't have to buy insurance to get the same shit treatment that you're getting.

But back to your problem. It sounds bad. My husband had prostate cancer, but his was the type that might not do anything and might not spread. We got rid of it with natural methods. But it sounds like yours is the aggressive type and I suspect our methods wouldn't work.

Did you hear back from the urologist? My husband has all sorts of problems down there too, and it's a headache, but he is getting some treatments through his company's private healthcare.