I'm definitely a 1-1 person. The daydreaming thing... well lets just say, apart from daydreaming being on all my school reports, I tried to watch a film last night and then had to rewind and re-watch a 10 minute slot because I'd drifted off.
I think repetitive thoughts are common as anything - was just reading something by Eckhart Tolle that says most of our thoughts are a waste of time because they're repetition.
I go on about things too - my husband can cope, fortunately. I have holes in some clothes where trying to cut the tags out went a bit wrong! I like fluffy sheets and won't use ordinary ones.