Hi Andrew, After a two year wait, I had an assessment recently. The assessor literally couldn't call it. She said she didn't know, thought it might be a reaction to a difficult childhood, and natural introversion. And it boiled down to whether she thought I'd benefit from a diagnosis. She decided there'd be no great benefit at this stage in my life, and so decided against it, but I still await her final report. To me, it would have provided some answers, some explanations, something to help me make sense of my life. Instead, I've got a feeling that if she'd seen me when I wasn't coping, the outcome would have been different. And I'm so on the fence between neurodivergent and normal that she literally couldn't call it. I look forward to her report, but on that basis, I'm not sure I have anything useful to say, except shared experience, sort of. Here's my story about the waiting... https://medium.com/artfullyautistic/could-i-be-on-the-spectrum-25b5a386a163